Independence of two events $A$ and $B$ in the sigma algebra $A, B \in \cal F$ of a probability space $(\Omega,\mathcal F, \mathbb P)$ is defined as
$$\Pr(A\cap B)= \Pr(A)\Pr(B)$$
The other two $\Pr(A\mid B)=\Pr(A)$ and $\Pr(B \mid A) = \Pr(B)$ cannot be used as definitions of independence because, for instance, $\Pr(A\mid B)=\Pr(A)$ requires $\Pr(B)\neq 0.$
Independent events cannot be understood intuitively as knowing about the event $B$ gives you no information about event $A$. The best example is explained here:
In the experiment of throwing a dart on the real line, $A=\text{lands on rational}$ and $B=\text{lands on an irrational}$. In this case, under the Lebesgue probability measure, $A\cap B=\emptyset$ and $\Pr(A\cap B)=0.$ Hence these events are independent. This is consistent with $\Pr(A) \Pr(B)=0$ since the $\Pr(A)=0$. Yet, knowing that the dart has landed on an irrational number rules out the possibility of the dart having landed on a rational number.
The even more mind-blowing example is the extension to the event $B$ (irrational) being independent of itself: the probability of landing on an irrational under the Lebesgue measure is $1$, and therefore $\Pr(A \cap A)= \Pr(A)\Pr(A).$