I'm self-studying differential geometry (from several different places) and have run into what I think is a high-level conceptual confusion. As with most conceptual confusions, I am not exactly certain how to express it even, but I think it comes down to: what are coordinates, and what is their relation to a basis set?
As an engineer, likely my notation is terrible - I apologize and welcome any corrections/guidance on it, I'm trying to learn.
I've so far been thinking/reasoning from a vector space point of view. If we have a basis set $e=\{e_1, e_2...e_n\}$ for a vector space $V$, then we can write $v\in V$ as $v=v_1e_1+v_2e_2+...v_ne_n$ (ignoring covariant/contravariant components distinction at the moment). From what I understand $[v]_e=(v_1, v_2...v_n)$ are the coordinates of $v$ in the basis set $e$.
In DG, we want to see what happens when we "change the coordinate system" (haven't managed to find a formal definition of this anywhere yet, but of course I've done this in calculus before). I understand this to imply that we are actually changing basis. But in many places (e.g. page 8 in https://www.astro.gla.ac.uk/users/norman/lectures/GR/part3-screen.pdf) the basis vectors are defined in terms of coordinate curves, e.g.: $e_i=\frac{\partial}{\partial x_i}$ (where $x_i$ is the coordinate). However, based on my previously expressed reasoning, I would have thought that the coordinates are simply the coefficients needed for expressing a vector in the basis vector set (after the basis set has been selected). I know that we can probably go the other direction in the equation (could we?) and get the coordinate curves from a selected basis set, but from linear algebra, there are requirements of linear independence and span for the basis set. I haven't seen any textbook that explains how these requirements would translate to coordinate curves. So the basis set seems "more fundamental" than the coordinate curves to me (or at least have requirements for them).
Am I thinking about this in the wrong way for DG? Are the coordinate curves on the manifold the more important object from which we should define the basis?