The following is taken from 'Theory of Categories" by Barry Mitchell
$\color{Green}{Background:}$
$\textbf{(1) Definition:}$
If $\alpha;A'\to A$ is a monomorphism, we shall call $A'$ a $\textbf{subobject}$ of $A,$ and we shall refer to $\alpha$ as the $\textbf{inclusion}$ of $A'$ in $A.$ Sometimes we shall write $\alpha;A'\subset A,$ or simply $A'\subset A$ when we want to indicate that $A'$ is a subobject of $A,$ and we shall say that $A'$ is $\textbf{contained}$ in $A,$ or that $A$ $\textbf{contains}$ $A'.$
$\textbf{(2) Definition:}$
If $A'\to A$ is the kernel of some morphism then we call $A'$ a $\textbf{normal}$ subobject of $A.$ If every monomorphism in a category is normal then we say that the category is $\textbf{normal}.$
$\textbf{(3) Definition:}$ Let $A$ be a category with a zero object, and let $\alpha:A\to B.$ We will call a morphism $u:K\to A$ the $\textbf{kernel}$ of $\alpha$ if $\alpha =0,$ and if for every morphism $u':K\to A$ such that $\alpha u'=0$ we have a unique morphism $\gamma:K'\to K$ such that $u\gamma =u'.$ Equivaluently, the kernel of $\alpha$ is given by the pullback diagram
$$\begin{array}{ccccccccc} K & \xrightarrow{} & 0\\ \small {u}\big\downarrow & & \big\downarrow\small {} & \\ A & \xrightarrow{} & B \end{array}$$
In other words $K=\alpha^{-1}(0),$ so that in particular $u$ must be a monomorphism, and any two kernels must be isomorphic subobjects of $A.$ The object $K$ is frequently denoted by $\mathrm{Ker}(\alpha).$ If $\alpha$ is a monomorphism then $\mathrm{Ker}(\alpha)=0,$ but the converse is not true in general (cf $\textbf{(4) Exercise}$ below). If $\mathrm{Ker}{(\beta\alpha)}$ and $\mathrm{Ker}{(\alpha)}$ are defined, then $\mathrm{Ker}{(\alpha})\subset \mathrm{Ker}{(\beta\alpha)}.$ If $\beta$ is a monomorphism, then
$$\mathrm{Ker}{(\alpha)}=\mathrm{Ker}{(\beta\alpha)}$$
in the sense that if either side is defined then so is the other and they are equal. Also if either of $\mathrm{Equ}(\alpha,0)$ and $\mathrm{Ker}(\alpha)$ are defined then so is the other and they are equal, so that in particular if $A$ has equalizers then $A$ has kernels. Frequently we will want to know if a morphism $u$ is the kernel of some morphism $\alpha,$ knowing in advance that $\alpha u=0$ and that $u$ is a monomorphism. In such a case it suffices to test for the existence of the morphism $\gamma.$ Uniqueness will be automatic since $u$ is a monomorphism.
$\textbf{(4) Exercise:}$
In a normal category with equalizers, a morphism is an epimorphism if and only if its cokernel is $0.$
$\color{Red}{Questions:}$
I am having trouble doing the (4) Exercise above due to difficulty translating it into math notation. Specifically I am having trouble understanding three things,
what does it mean to say that $A'\to A$ is the kernel of some morphism?
What does it mean for it to say that the morphism of a cokernel is 0
By the referral of morphism in the exercise, which morphism is it referring to, the pair of maps that are the equalizers or the map that come before that precompose with the pair of maps which form equalisers?
Thank you in advance