I've been playing with the definition of the cross product and am trying to grasp the atomic algebraic assumptions needed to define the unique cross product. I remember seeing a post that was saying that the cross product is necessarily the only vector valued vector multiplication that satisfies the distributive property with scalar multiplication and addition (1)-(2) below and some other simple assumptions. One such requirement would be that the product is orthogonal to both arguments (4) below. In trying to find these assumptions I have arrived at the following investigation.
The cross product is defined as an operation $\times : \mathbf{R^3}\times\mathbf{R^3}\rightarrow\mathbf{R^3}$ with the following algebraic properties.
(1) $c\mathbf{v}\times\mathbf{w} = \mathbf{v}\times c\mathbf{w} = c(\mathbf{v}\times\mathbf{w})$
(2a) $(\mathbf{v} + \mathbf{u})\times \mathbf{w} = \mathbf{v}\times \mathbf{w} + \mathbf{u} + \mathbf{w}$
(2b) $\mathbf{v} \times (\mathbf{u} + \mathbf{w}) = \mathbf{v}\times \mathbf{u} + \mathbf{v} + \mathbf{w}$
(3) $\mathbf{v} \times \mathbf{w} = -(\mathbf{w} \times \mathbf{v})$.
With these properties along with the assumptions
(i) $\hat{i}\times \hat{j} = \hat{k}$
(ii) $\hat{j}\times \hat{k} = \hat{i}$
(iii) $\hat{k}\times \hat{i} = \hat{j}$
we can derive the definition for such a product by computing $\mathbf{v} \times \mathbf{w} = (v_1 \hat{i} + v_2 \hat{j} + v_3 \hat{k}) \times (w_1 \hat{i} + w_2 \hat{j} + w_3 \hat{k})$.
My question is, is it possible to replace rule (3) with $\mathbf{v} \times \mathbf{w} = \mathbf{w} \times \mathbf{v}$ and assume only (i) $\hat{i}\times \hat{j} = \hat{k}$ to define a consistent multiplication? It seems like this shouldn't work but I haven't been able to find a contradiction yet.
An alternate question is: can we assume (1)-(2) with (i) along with
(4) $\mathbf{v} \cdot(\mathbf{v}\times \mathbf{w}) = \mathbf{w} \cdot(\mathbf{v}\times \mathbf{w}) =\mathbf{0}$
and derive (3) by contradiction?