Ok, so I asked a similar question here, but after the first response it quickly devolved into an unfocused mess. I now believe I can adequately formulate my confusion.
Let $V$ be $\mathbb{K}=\mathbb{C},\mathbb{R}$ linear vector space of dimension $n$, and $V^*$ it's dual. I am going to work with the dual space $V^*$ for convenience, but since $(V^*)^*$ is canonically isomorphic to $V$ everything I do here can be done in with $V$ by just replacing vectors with covectors and vice versa. We denote the exterior algebra of $V^*$ by: $$\Lambda(V^*)=\bigoplus_{k=0}^n\Lambda^k(V^*)$$ where each $\Lambda^k(V)$ is the subspace of multilinear maps $V^k\rightarrow \mathbb{K}$ which are totally antisymmetric. The antisymetrization map: $$ \begin{align} \text{Alt}:(V^*)^{\otimes k}&\longrightarrow \Lambda^k(V^*) \end{align} $$ is defined by it's action on a set of vectors $v_1,\dots,v_k\in V$: $$\text{Alt}(\omega)(v_1,\dots,v_k)=\frac{1}{k!}\sum_{\sigma\in S_k}\text{sgn}(\sigma)\omega(v_{\sigma(1)},\dots,v_{\sigma(k)})$$ We define a wedge product on $\Lambda(V^*)$ by: $$\omega\wedge \eta=\frac{(k+l)!}{k!l!}\text{Alt}(\omega\otimes \eta)$$ where $\omega\in \Lambda^k(V^*)$ and $\eta\in \Lambda^k(V^*)$. This product is associative, and turns $\Lambda(V^*)$ into a graded, associative $\mathbb{K}$ algebra with unit element $1\in\mathbb{K}$. Furthermore, one can show that for a set of $k$ covectors $\omega^1,\cdots, \omega^k\in V^*$, the wedge product satisfies: $$\omega^1\wedge \cdots \wedge \omega^k=\sum_{\sigma\in S_k}\text{sgn}(\sigma)\omega^{\sigma(1)}\otimes\cdots\otimes\omega^{\sigma(k)}$$ I did this proof in edit 3 of my other question, and I would not be surprised if I messed something up. However, even if something is wrong with the proof, I strongly suspect that the above still holds as it seems equivalent to $\textbf{Proposition 14.11 part d)}$ in Lee's smooth manifolds. This property is also why it is called the determinant convention, as if $k=n$, and $\omega^i=e^i$, where $\{e^i\}$ is the basis for $V^*$ dual to the basis $\{e_i\}$ for $V$, then the above product is the determinant of $n$ vectors.
Now, let $$T(V^*)=\bigoplus_{n=0}^\infty (V^*)^{\otimes n}$$ and let $I$ be the ideal generated by: $$\{\omega\otimes \omega |\omega\in V^*\}$$ Then since $I$ is a graded ideal, as it is generated by homogenous elements, and $T(V^*)$ is a graded associative $\mathbb{K}$ algebra with unit element $1$, it follows that with $I_k=I\cap(V^*)^{\otimes k}$: $$T(V^*)/I=\bigoplus_{k=0}^\infty T(V^*)_k/I_k$$ is a graded associative $\mathbb{K}$ algebra with unit element $1$. Furthermore, it is not hard to show that for $k>n$, $T(V^*)_k/I_k=\{0\}$, and that for $k=0,1$, $T(V^*)_0/I_0=\mathbb{K}$, and $T(V^*)_1/I_1=V^*$. For each $2\leq k\leq n$, we then define the linear map: $$\phi^k:(V^*)^{\otimes k}\longrightarrow \Lambda^k(V^*)$$ which on simple tensors is given by: $$\omega^1\otimes\cdots \otimes\omega^k\longrightarrow \omega^1\wedge \cdots \wedge \omega^k$$. The map is easily seen to be surjective, and since any $i\in I_k$ can be written as the sum: $$i=\sum_i\sum_{j+l=k-2}a_j\otimes(\omega_i\otimes \omega_i)\otimes b_l$$ where each $a_j\in V^{\otimes j}$ and each $b_l\in V^{\otimes l}$, we have that $i\in \ker\phi^k$, so $I_k\subset \ker \phi$, and by the universal property of quotient vector spaces we have that $\phi_k$ descends to a surjective linear map $\psi_k:T(V^*)/I_k\rightarrow \Lambda^k(V^*)$. After deriving some properties of multiplication in $T(V)/I$, which are pretty much the same as the properties of the wedge product, it is also not difficult to see that the set: $$B=\{[e^{i_1}\otimes\cdots \otimes e^{i_k}]:i_1<\cdots<i_k\}$$ spans $T(V)_k/I_k$. It is linearly independent since for any linear combination combination: $$\sum_{i_1<\cdots<i_k}a_{i_1\cdots i_k}[e^{i_1}\otimes\cdots \otimes e^{i_k}]=0$$ we have that under the map$\psi^k$: $$\sum_{i_1<\cdots <i_k}a_{i_1\cdots i_k}e^{i_1}\wedge \cdots \wedge e^{i_k}=0$$ Hence, if $j_1\cdots j_k$ is any other ordered multi index, we have that: $$ \begin{align} \sum_{i_1<\cdots <i_k}a_{i_1\cdots i_k}e^{i_1}\wedge \cdots \wedge e^{i_k}(e_{j_1},\cdots e_{j_k})=&\sum_{i_1\cdots i_k}a_{i_1\cdots i_k}\delta^{i_1\cdots i_k}_{j_1\cdots j_k}\\ =&a_{j_1\cdots j_k}\\ =&0 \end{align} $$ So each coefficient in the sum is zero, and $B$ is linearly independent. Since the size of $B$ is clearly $n$ choose $k$, we have that $\dim T(V^*)_k/I_k=\dim \Lambda^k(V^*)$, so since $\psi^k$ is surjective, it follows by rank nullity that for each $k$: $$T(V^*)_k/I_k\cong \Lambda^k(V^*)$$
My question is then this, why can't we use these maps to create an algebra isomorphism between $T(V^*)/I$ and $\Lambda(V^*)$? From the reply in my previous post, it seems to suggest that this is impossible with the wedge product defined as I have it. However, I believe we can. Every element $a\in T(V^*)/I$ can be written as the sum: $$a=\sum_{i=0}^na_i$$ where each $a_i\in T(V^*)_i/T_i$, hence we use the $\psi^k$'s to define the following map: $$\psi:\sum_{i=0}^na_i\longrightarrow \sum_{i=0}^n\psi^i(a_i)$$ It is a linear bijection, so as vector spaces we have an isomorphism. By linearity, it suffices to check that one simple products we have that: $$\psi([\omega^1\otimes\cdots \otimes \omega^k]\cdot [\omega^{k+1}\otimes \cdots \otimes \omega^l])=\psi([\omega^1\otimes \cdots \otimes \omega^{k+1}])\wedge \psi([\omega^{k+1}\otimes \cdots \otimes \omega^{k+l}])$$ By the induced multiplicative structure on $T(V)/I$ we have that: $$[\omega^1\otimes\cdots \otimes \omega^k]\cdot [\omega^{k+1}\otimes \cdots \otimes \omega^l]=[\omega^1\otimes \cdots\omega^{k}\otimes\omega^{k+1} \otimes \omega^{k+l}]$$ hence: $$ \begin{align} \psi([\omega^1\otimes\cdots \otimes \omega^k]\cdot [\omega^{k+1}\otimes \cdots \otimes \omega^l])=&\psi^{k+l}([\omega^1\otimes \cdots\omega^{k}\otimes\omega^{k+1} \otimes \omega^{k+l}])\\ =&\omega^1\wedge \cdots \wedge \omega^k\wedge \omega^{k+1}\wedge \cdots \wedge \omega^{k+l} \end{align}$$ While: $$ \begin{align} \psi([\omega^1\otimes \cdots \otimes \omega^k])\wedge \psi([\omega^{k+1}\otimes \cdots \otimes \omega^{l}])=&\psi^k([\omega^1\otimes \cdots \otimes \omega^k])\wedge \psi^l([\omega^{k+1}\otimes \cdots \otimes \omega^{k+l}])\\ =&(\omega^1\wedge \cdots \wedge \omega^{k})\wedge (\omega^{k+1}\wedge \cdots \wedge \omega^{k+l})\\ =&\omega^1\wedge \cdots \wedge \omega^k\wedge \omega^{k+1}\wedge \cdots \wedge \omega^{k+l} \end{align}$$ so $\psi$ is respects multiplication in both algebras. It is clear that $\psi(1)=1$, as $\psi^0$ is the identity map, so $\psi$ is a $\mathbb{K}$-algebra homomorphism, and thus an isomorphism.
Am I missing something here? It seems that once we get a vector space isomorphism on each grade everything falls into place.