To give more details about the title question, assume that we have a collection of $n$ distinct elements. On each step, numbering from zero, we choose one of them uniformly at random (with replacement). I am interested in the distribution of the random variable $X_n$ indicating the moment when any element is selected a second time, i.e. the first collision. Specifically, I am interested in whether $X_n$ is more likely to be even or odd.
It is easy to see that $$p_k(n) := \mbox{P}(X_n=k) = \Big(1-\frac{1}{n}\Big)\Big(1-\frac{2}{n}\Big) \dots \Big(1-\frac{k-1}{n}\Big)\cdot\frac{k}{n} = \binom{n-1}{k-1} \cdot \frac{k!}{n^k}$$ for all $1\le k \le n$. I do not know if this distribution has a common name, but it is closely related to the birthday problem. In particular, it is known that the expected value $\mbox{E}(X_n)$ is asymptotically equal to $\sqrt{\frac{\pi}{2}n}$ for large $n$, see e.g. this Math.SE post, Wikipedia, or the paper 'Bounds on Birthday Attack Times' by Michael J. Wiener.
Let $P_0(n)$ and $P_1(n)$ be the probabilities that $X_n$ is even and odd, respectively. Namely, we have $$ P_0(n) = \sum_{\substack{k=1 \\ k \scriptsize\mbox{ is even}}}^{n} p_k(n), \ \ \ P_1(n) = \sum_{\substack{k=1 \\ k \scriptsize\mbox{ is odd}}}^{n} p_k(n).$$
For $1 \le n \le 6$, the values of $P_1(n)$ are equal to $1, \frac{1}{2}, \frac{5}{9}, \frac{17}{32}, \frac{329}{625}, \frac{169}{324}$, respectively. This (and some more numerical experiments that I better not to show explicitly) suggest the following problem.
Question Is it true, that for all $n>2$, we have $P_1(n)>P_0(n)$, i.e that $X_n$ is more likely to be odd than even?
I think that numerical data supports an even stronger statement that $P_1(n) = \frac{1}{2}+\frac{1+o(1)}{8n}$ as $n \to \infty$, but I don't know how to estimate this sum with such an accuracy.
Finally, what happens if there are more than two 'players', i.e. if we look at $X_n \bmod m$ for some fixed $m>2$ (for instance, modulo 3)? Which residue would have an advantage in this case for large values of $n$?