Let $K$ be a field with an involution $*$, meaning $*:K\to K$ is a field homomorphism and $(x^*)^*=x$ for all $x\in K$. Let $M$ be a conjugate-symmetric $n\times n$ matrix with entries in $K$, meaning ${M_{ij}=M_{ji}}^*$ for all $1\leq i,j\leq n$.
Is $M$ diagonalizable? If so, must its eigenvalues be of the form $xx^*$? If not, what if we restrict to $*=\text{id}$ and/or char$(K)≠2$?
As might be clear, I'm interested in whether the standard real/complex spectral theorems in finite dimension generalize to arbitrary fields. Note that the above question reduces to some standard results for $(K,*)=(\mathbb R,\text{id})$ or $(K,*)=(\mathbb C,\overline{\phantom{x}}\,)$, for which the answers are "yes."