Let $V$ be a a Euclidean or unitary vector space and $f,g$ be linear endomorphisms from $V$ such that $\langle f(x),x\rangle=\langle g(x),x\rangle,\,\forall x\in V$ holds. Does $f=g$ hold? Does it hold if $V$ is finite-dimensional?
I thought that this looked like a good application of the polarisation identities since the terms in there look similar to the above terms but I haven't been able to show the validity of the claim above with this or anything else so far (nor have I been able to disprove it).