For example, one of my review problems is: Let $S_k$ be the kernel of $T^k$. Show there is a $K$ such that $S_K = S_{K+1} = \cdots$
Somewhere in the back of my brain there's an intuition that told me, "Well duh, $K = \dim(T)$." Obviously (to me anyway) once $K$ gets bigger than $\dim(T)$, you're either cycling around in some $T$-invariant subspace, or you're in the null space. My brain got there by envisioning a matrix in my head and thinking about what would happen to each vector in the domain until it was satisfied that $K=\dim(T)$ satisfies the prompt. At this point that part of my brain was content that a solution exists and moved on to something more interesting. But if I sit down and try to prove it with only the properties of transformations and subspaces, I don't even know where to start. Do I take a basis? Do I count dimensions? Nothing I try seems to get me anywhere.
I think my brain is thinking about it the wrong way. Lower division math is about manipulating formulas and calculating. I got pretty good at doing that, and now my brain seems to attack every problem that way. I get the sense from talking to other (smarter) people that proofs are different. When my instructors come up with proofs they seem to be doing something completely different in their minds than I'm doing. To me it seems more akin to solving a puzzle than to manipulating equations. I don't see what they're doing that makes it so clear to them, in the way that lower division stuff is clear to me.
I've heard many tips, including "Write the first line and the last line of your proof, and then try to fill in the gaps." And also, "Write statements for everything you know is true in one place." And also, "Write as many statements as you can until you see something that can help you make the conclusion you need." And so on. Those are good tips that help simplify the problem, but I feel like the real solution is rewiring my brain to think in a different way. Sitting here and looking at and doing dozens of proofs hasn't gotten me anywhere, so I'm hoping for some insight from some people smarter than I am.
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– Gyu Eun Lee Dec 12 '14 at 20:50