I'll start with saying this is, in my mind, a terrible idea. You really should not implicitly alter what is exported from a module, this goes counter to the Zen of Python: Explicit is better than implicit..
I also agree with the highest-voted answer on the question you cite; Python already has a mechanism to mark functions 'private', by convention we use a leading underscore to indicate a function should not be considered part of the module API. This approach works with existing tools, vs. the decorator dynamically setting __all__ which certainly breaks static code analysers.
That out of the way, here is a shotgun pointing at your foot. Use it with care.
What you want here is a way to detect when names are imported. You cannot normally do this; there are no hooks for import statements. Once a module has been imported from source, a module object is added to sys.modules and re-used for subsequent imports, but that object is not notified of imports.
What you can do is hook into attribute access. Not with the default module object, but you can stuff any object into sys.modules and it'll be treated as a module. You could just subclass the module type even, then add a __getattribute__ method to that. It'll be called when importing any name with from module import name, for all names listed in __all__ when using from module import *, and in Python 3, __spec__ is accessed for all import forms, even when doing just import module.
You can then use this to hack your way into the calling frame globals, via sys._getframe():
import sys
import types
class AttributeAccessHookModule(types.ModuleType):
def __getattribute__(self, name):
if name == '__all__':
# assume we are being imported with from module import *
g = sys._getframe(1).f_globals
if '__all__' not in g:
g['__all__'] = []
return super(AttributeAccessHook, self).__getattribute__(name)
# replace *this* module with our hacked-up version
# this part goes at the *end* of your module.
replacement = sys.module[__name__] = AttributeAccessHook(__name__, __doc__)
for name, obj in globals().items():
setattr(replacement, name, obj)