In set theory, $1+ω$ is defined as the ordinal number of ordinal sum of sets $\{a\}$ and ℕ. Also $ω+1$ is defined as the ordinal number of ordinal sum of sets $\Bbb N$ and $\{a\}$. You know what the ordinal sum means: the ordinal sum of well-ordered sets $A$ and $B$ is the set $A \cup B$ ordered as you know. We know that the sets $\{a\} \cup ℕ$ and $ℕ \cup \{a\}$ are equipotent and well-ordered. And also we know by a theorem in set theory, any two equipotent well-ordered set are isomorphic (similar).
Doesn't this argument contradict with the fact that in set theory, the ordinal numbers $1+ω$ and $ω+1$ are not equal to each other?
Pinter mentioned in his book following theorem and he proved it: "Theorem Let A and B be well-ordered classes; exactly one of the following three cases must be hold:
i) A is isomorphic with B.
ii) A is isomorphic with an initial segment of B.
iii) B is isomorphic with an initial segment of A.".
And he concluded " well-ordered classes do not differ from one another except in their size". I remind you the "isomorphism" concept is equivalent to "similar" concept; and it is a one to one correspondence between two sets and order-preserving.