Let $\{x_{i,j}:i\in I,j \in J\}$ be a double indexed family of elements in a Banach space $X$.
I want to show the following result.
Proposition. If $\sum_{(i,j)\in I\times J}\|x_{i,j}\|<\infty$ then
$$\sum_{(i,j)\in I\times J}x_{i,j}=\sum_{i\in I} \sum_{j\in J} x_{i,j}=\sum_{j\in J} \sum_{i\in I} x_{i,j}$$
where the convergence of each series is part of the result and convergence is understood using nets as in here.
Proof. I will assume the results holds when the terms $x_{i,j}$ take values in $[0,\infty]$, since this can be seen as a special case of Fubini's Theorem for the Lebesgue integral with counting measure.
Since $\sum_{(i,j)\in I\times J}\|x_{i,j}\|<\infty$ and $X$ is complete there series $\sum_{(i,j)\in I\times J}x_{i,j}$ converges (Cauchy nets converge in complete metric spaces).
Since $\sum_{i\in I} \sum_{j\in J} \|x_{i,j}\|=\sum_{(i,j)\in I\times J}\|x_{i,j}\|<\infty$ we have $ \sum_{j\in J} \|x_{i,j}\|<\infty$ for each $i\in I$, and so arguing as in $1$ we get that $\sum_{j\in J} x_{i,j}$ converges for each $i\in I$. Also, $\|\sum_{j\in J} x_{i,j}\|\leq \sum_{j\in J} \|x_{i,j}\|$ for each $i\in I$. It follows that $\sum_{i\in I} \|\sum_{j\in J} x_{i,j}\|\leq \sum_{i\in I} \sum_{j\in J} \|x_{i,j}\|<\infty$ and so the double serie $\sum_{i\in I} \sum_{j\in J} x_{i,j}$ converges.
A symmetric argument to 2 shows that $\sum_{i\in I} x_{i,j}$ converges for each $j\in J$ and that $\sum_{j\in J} \sum_{i\in I} x_{i,j}$ converges.
It remains to show that all three series converge to the same element.
How can I complete step 4?