The following proof of the rearrangement theorem is from Bartle and Sherbert's Introduction to Real Analysis, 3rd edition. I do not see where absolute convergence was used in the proof.
9.1.5 Rearrangement Theorem Let $\sum x_n$ be an absolutely convergent series in $\mathbb{R}$. Then any rearrangement $\sum y_k$ of $\sum x_n$ converges to the same value.
Proof. Suppose that $\sum x_n$ converges to $x \in \mathbb{R}$. Thus, if $\varepsilon > 0$, let $N$ be such that if $n, q > N$ and $s_n := x_1 + \cdots + x_n$, then
$$ |x - s_n| < \varepsilon $$
and
$$ \sum_{k=N+1}^{q} |x_k| < \varepsilon. $$
Let $M \in \mathbb{N}$ be such that all of the terms $x_1, \cdots, x_N$ are contained as summands in $t_M := y_1 + \cdots + y_M$. It follows that if $m \geq M$, then $t_m - s_n$ is the sum of a finite number of terms $x_k$ with index $k > N$. Hence, for some $q > N$, we have
$$ |t_m - s_n| \leq \sum_{k=N+1}^{q} |x_k| < \varepsilon. $$
Therefore, if $m \geq M$, then we have
$$ |t_m - x| \leq |t_m - s_n| + |s_n - x| < \varepsilon + \varepsilon = 2\varepsilon. $$
Since $\varepsilon > 0$ is arbitrary, we conclude that $\sum y_k$ converges to $x$.
Why couldn't we use normal convergence? I was thinking of the harmonic series as a counterexample, where it does converge (not absolutely) but there is a rearrangement that is divergent, namely: $$ \sum_{n=1}^\infty \frac{(-1)^{n+1}}{n} = \sum_{k=1}^\infty \frac{1}{2k-1} + \sum_{k=1}^\infty \frac{-1}{2k} = \infty - \infty $$
Is this a valid counterexample?