As I have heard, tangent vector to a smooth manifold $M$ in $p \in M$ is the operator $D_{\xi}$:$f \to D_{\xi}f$, where $f$ is a smooth function $f: M \to R$, with the following properties:
$D_{\xi}(f+g)=D_{\xi}f+D_{\xi}g $
$D_{\xi}(fh)=(D_{\xi}f)h(p)+f(p)(D_{\xi}h) $
So, the basis of the tangent space is:
${\frac{\partial }{\partial x^{1}}}, \frac{\partial }{\partial x^{1}}, ..., \frac{\partial }{\partial x^{n}}$, where ${x^{1},...,x^{n}}$ are coordinates of the local map $(U_{p}, \phi_{p})$.
and any vector in tangent space has the following form:
$\xi^{1}\frac{\partial }{\partial x^{1}}+...+\xi^{n}\frac{\partial }{\partial x^{n}} \in TM_{p}$, where the set $\xi^{1},...,\xi^{n}$ is called the coordinates of tangent vector.
How does this definition relate to intuitive graphical interpretation?