If $X$ is a Hausdorff extremally disconnected $P$-space with $|X|$ smaller than first measurable cardinal, then $X$ is discrete.
To see this, note that the proof of point $1.$ given in this answer of mine only uses Tychonoff assumption to obtain a clopen set $U$ such that $x\in U$ and $p\notin U$ in the first part of the answer. But since Hausdorff extremally disconnected spaces are totally separated, this proof still holds if we replace Tychonoff by the weaker separation axiom.
So any example of a Hausdorff extremally disconnected $P$-space that isn't regular, cannot be constructed in ZFC.
By the same procedure as in David Gao's proof, given $\kappa$ is a measurable cardinal, $\lambda < \kappa$, and $G$ a $\kappa$-complete free ultrafilter, we can obtain $\lambda$ distinct $\kappa$-complete free ultrafilters by decomposing $\kappa = \bigcup_{\alpha < \lambda} X_\alpha$ where $|X_\alpha| = \kappa$ and considering bijections that swap $X_\alpha$ with each other. Because $G$ is $\kappa$-complete and $\kappa\in G$, there must exist $\alpha$ such that $X_\alpha\in G$. Since $\kappa$ is measurable, it's inaccessible, and so $\kappa = \sup\{\lambda : \lambda < \kappa\}$ and so this gives us $\kappa$ distinct $\kappa$-complete free ultrafilters.
In particular, $|\nu(\kappa)\setminus \kappa|\geq \kappa$ where $\kappa$ has discrete topology, and if $\kappa\leq \kappa_0$, then $\kappa$ is $C$-embedded in $\text{cl}_{\nu(\kappa_0)} \kappa$, and so $\nu(\kappa)\setminus \kappa \subseteq \nu(\kappa_0)\setminus \kappa_0$ so that $|\nu(\kappa_0)\setminus \kappa_0|\geq \kappa$.
As a corollary, if $\mathfrak{m}$ is the smallest measurable cardinal and $\kappa_0\geq \mathfrak{m}$, then $\nu(\kappa_0)\setminus \kappa_0$ is not metrizable, since being a closed subset of realcompact space $\nu(\kappa_0)$ it's realcompact, and a realcompact metrizable space has size $< \mathfrak{m}$ (see discussion here). This is, I feel like, a good insight into topology of $\nu(\kappa_0)$, something that I haven't seen anyone studying extensively (I could only find that $\nu(\kappa_0)$ is not a $k$-space).
Now let $\kappa\geq \mathfrak{m}$ have discrete topology where $\mathfrak{m}$ is the smallest measurable cardinal. Note that $\nu(\kappa)$ is an extremally disconnected $P$-space. Pick non-closed set $C\subseteq \nu(\kappa)\setminus\kappa$, this is possible since $\nu(\kappa)\setminus\kappa$ is a closed non-discrete set. Let the open sets on $X = \nu(\kappa)$ be of the form $V_1\cup V_2\setminus C$ where $V_1, V_2\subseteq \nu(\kappa)$ are open. As in the proof for the K-topology, because $C$ is nowhere dense, $X$ can easily shown to be Hausdorff and not regular. It's also easy to see that $X$ is a $P$-space.
Moreover $\text{cl}_X (V_1\cup V_2\setminus C) = \overline{V_1}\cup \overline{V_2}$ as one can show, so $X$ is extremally disconnected (this construction, in general, preserves extremally disconnected property).
So this is another way to obtain a Hausdorff extremally disconnected $P$-space that is not regular.