In this answer the mean-square limit of a succession of stochastic processes $Q_n$ is calculated in this simple way:
- Check whether the limit of their mean value is finite or not: $$\tag{1}\displaystyle \lim_{n\to\infty}\operatorname{ E}[Q_n]=:Q\lt\infty$$
- Make sure that the variance vanishes in the limit: $$\tag{2}\displaystyle \lim_{n\to\infty}\operatorname{Var}[Q_n]=0. $$
If both $(1)$ and $(2)$ are realized, then $Q$ is shown to be the mean square limit of $Q_n$. Is this a general strategy? According to what theorem?
UPDATE. As @Adam pointed out, this strategy provides sufficient but not necessary conditions. As an example, consider the integral
$$ Q:=\int_{t_0}^t\mathrm{d}W_s$$ this is by definition the mean-square limit of $$ Q_n=\sum_{i=1}^n\bigg(W(t_i)-W(t_{i-1})\bigg)=W(t)-W(t_0) $$ where $t_n=t$, and $t_i-t_{i-1}=(t-t_0)/n$. But then, according to the definition of wiener process, $W(t)-W(t_0)\sim\mathcal{N}(0, t-t_0)$, so $$ \mathrm{E}[Q_n]=0,\\ \mathrm{Var}[Q_n]=t-t_0\nrightarrow 0 \quad \mathrm{as} \quad n\to\infty $$
and yet, $W(t)-W(t_0)$ is supposed to be the answer.