Usually when I am trying to control some quantity, I try to apply the inequalities that I know in hopes of obtaining the bound I am looking for. I know to not always apply inequalities directly, but instead to try to apply them near where they are tightest, to get the best bound.
For example, in a proof of the cauchy-schwarz inequality, starting from the bound:
$$\langle a- b, a- b \rangle \geq 0\quad (1)$$
naively expanding gives us:
$$\frac{1}{2} \left (\|a\|^2+\|b\|^2\right ) \geq \langle a, b \rangle$$
which is not as tight as the cauchy-schwarz inequality (by AM-GM). However, note that $(1)$ is tight when $a = b$, so instead applying it with normalized $a/\|a\|$ and $b/\|b\|$ gives us a tighter bound, which turns out to be the inequality we are looking for.
my question
Often, I struggle with a proof of an inequality because I did not think to apply a bound which I expected to be loose (as in $(1)$ above). What are some tips/tricks for knowing when an inequality is good enough, before I even try it?
A specific example is in the application of union bounds. I usually hesitate to try a union bound since I expect it to be coarse.
Another example is the bound $1+x \leq e^x$ which is very coarse for large $x$.
EDIT:
To give a concrete example using a union bound:
Given a collection of zero mean subgaussian random variables, we have the following tail bound:
$$\mathbb P(X \geq t) \leq e^{-t^2/2\sigma^2}$$
Using this and a union bound we can show the bound on the deviation of the maximum:
$$\mathbb P(\max_i^n |X_i| \geq t) \leq 2ne^{-t^2/2\sigma^2}$$
At first glance it's not clear to me if this is a good bound or not. It seems to be quite coarse due to the leading $n$ factor. But it does allow us to show the following useful bound on the expectation:
Which implies the bound on the expectation: $$\mathbb E |X| \leq \sqrt{2\sigma^2 \log 2n}+ 1/\left(2\sqrt{2\sigma^2 \log 2n}\right)$$
While this isn't a tight bound (it is possible to show that the second term is not needed, it still gives the correct asymptotic rate.