James Dugundji defines (Topology, chap. VI definition 5.1) a cone in the following manner
For any space $X$, the cone $TX$ over $X$ is the quotient space $(X\times I)/R$, where $R$ is the equivalence relation $(x,1)\sim(x',1)$ for all $x$, $x'\in X$.
My question is on the relation $R$. How is $$R=\{\big((x,1),(x',1)\big)\mid x,x'\in X\}\subset (X\times I)^2$$ an equivalence relation on $X\times I$? It is not necessarily reflexive [$(x,0)\nsim(x,0)$]. What does Dugundji mean with that definition of $R$?
He then, in the next line,writes
Equivalently, $TX=(X\times I)/(X\times 1)$; intuitively, $TX$ is obtained from $X\times I$ by pinching $X\times 1$ to a single point.
And I, again, don't know what he means: how is he taking the quotient space of $X\times I$ with respect to $X\times 1$ which is not a subset of $(X\times I)^2$?
Notation:
- Dugundji uses $x=\{x\}$ sometimes (in this case, $x=1$).
- $I=[0,1]$.