Let $ABCD$ be a parallelogram and let $E\in\overline{AD},\ F\in\overline{CD}$ such that: $$\frac{|AE|}{|ED|}=\frac{|DF|}{|FC|}=\frac12.$$ Find the ratio in which the line segment $\overline{EF}$ divides the diagonal $\overline{BD}$.
One approach I'm familiar with:
$\overrightarrow{AB}=\overrightarrow{DC}\ \&\ \overrightarrow{AD}=\overrightarrow{BC}$
Let $S$ be the intersection point of $\overline{EF}$ and diagonal $\overline{BD}$, then:
$\overrightarrow{ES}=\lambda\overrightarrow{EF}\ \&\ \overrightarrow{DS}=\mu\overrightarrow{DB}$
$\overrightarrow{ES}=\lambda\overrightarrow{EF}=\lambda\left(\overrightarrow{ED}+\overrightarrow{DF}\right)=\lambda\left(\frac23\overrightarrow{AD}+\frac13\overrightarrow{DC}\right)=\frac{2\lambda}3\overrightarrow{AD}+\frac{\lambda}3\overrightarrow{AB}$
On the other hand,
$\overrightarrow{ES}=\overrightarrow{ED}+\overrightarrow{DS}=\frac23\overrightarrow{AD}+\mu\overrightarrow{DB}=\frac23\overrightarrow{AD}+\mu\left(\overrightarrow{DA}+\overrightarrow{AB}\right)=\left(\frac23-\mu\right)\overrightarrow{AD}+\mu\overrightarrow{AB}$
$\overrightarrow{AD}$ and $\overrightarrow{AB}$ can form a basis, so we have obtain the following system:
$$\begin{cases}\frac{2\lambda}3&=\frac23-\mu\\\frac{\lambda}3&=\mu\end{cases}\implies \lambda=\frac23\implies\mu=\frac29$$
So we get that $\overline{EF}$ divides the diagonal $\overline{BD}$ in the ratio $2:7$
My question:
How can we solve this problem using the following theorem about the composition of two homotheties ( found here, in the answer by Aqua):
If $\mathcal{H}_{M,k_1}$ and $\mathcal{H}_{N,k_2}$ are homotheties then their compostion $\mathcal{H}_{M,k_1}\circ \mathcal{H}_{N,k_2}$ is again some homothety $\mathcal{H}_{S,k}$ with $k=k_1k_2$ (if $k\ne 1$) and it center $S$ lies on a line $MN$.
I thought I could do the following:
$$\begin{aligned}\mathcal H_{E,-2}&:A\mapsto D\\\mathcal H_{F,-2}&:D\mapsto C\end{aligned}$$ so that the center of the homothety $\mathcal H_{E,-2}\circ\mathcal H_{F,-2}$ lies on the line $EF$, but this doesn't lead me to the right result.
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Edit:
For future readers, picture according to the answer by @MichaelRozenberg:


