The proof that UEP implies Hausdorff can also be given thusly: let $x \neq y$ in $X$.
Then consider $X \times X$ in the product topology and let $f_1$,$f_2$ be the two continuous projections and let $D:=\{(x,x) \mid x \in X\}$. Then $D$ is by definition dense in $Y=\overline{D}$ (closure taken in $X \times X$) and $f_1 \restriction_D = f_2\restriction_D$ and so $f_1 = f_2$ on $Y$ which means that $\overline{D} = D$ as $f_1 \neq f_2$ outside $D$, in particular $x=f_1(x,y)=f_2(x,y)=y$.
So $(x,y) \notin \overline{D}$ which means that there is a (basic) open neighbourhood $U \times V$ of $(x,y)$ that misses $D$, and this implies $U \cap V = \emptyset$.
But to avoid the LEM you'd have to set up topology in quite a different way. See intuitionistic topology and such theories. Some use of proofs by contradiction, or use of the contrapositive is unavoidable, and shouldn't be avoided unless one is a very strict constructivist/intuitionist/finitist etc., in which case you have to throw away most of standard maths anyway. I think the above argument could be acceptable to the OP, I hope. It's inspired on the fact that $X$ is Hausdorff iff the diagonal is closed in $X^2$ (which proof also uses some contrapositive), and which has the advantage of working in any space, $T_1$ or not, and not using nets (as some proofs do).