Concerning the $4$ highlights.
1) If $T$ is measurable then by definition it satisfies $T^{-1}(F)\in\mathcal F$ for every $F\in\mathcal F'$. Here $\mathcal F'=\sigma(\mathcal A')$ implying that $\mathcal A'$ is a subcollection of $\mathcal F'$. So if $T$ is measurable we will have $T^{-1}(F)\in\mathcal F$ for every $F\in\mathcal A'$. This can be restated as: $T$ can only be $\mathcal F/\mathcal F'$-measurable if $T^{-1}(A')\in\mathcal F$ for every $A'\in\mathcal A'$. Again in other words: it is a necessary condition.
2) This is not more than a definition. $\mathcal G'$ denotes the collection of all subsets of $\Omega'$ that have the property that their preimage under $T$ is an element of $\mathcal F$.
3) As we stated in 1) for every $F\in\mathcal A'$ it is true that its preimage under $T$ (i.e. the set $T^{-1}(F)$) is an element of $\mathcal F$. According to the definition of $\mathcal G'$ given in 2) the statement in 1) can be translated into $\mathcal A'\subseteq\mathcal G'$.
4) in i),ii),iii) it is proved that collection $\mathcal G'$ is a $\sigma$-algebra. This with $\mathcal A'\subseteq\mathcal G'$ as said in 3) and from this we are allowed to conclude that also $\mathcal F':=\sigma(\mathcal A')\subseteq\mathcal G'$. So proved is now that every $F\in\mathcal F'$ has the property that its preimage under $T$ is an element of $\mathcal F$. This states exactly that $T:(\Omega,\mathcal F)\to(\Omega',\mathcal F')$ is measurable. Or using other notation that the function $T:\Omega\to\Omega'$ is $\mathcal F/\mathcal F'$-measurable.
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It can be shown that for every subcollection $\mathcal{A}'\subseteq\wp\left(\Omega'\right)$
we have: $$\sigma\left(T^{-1}\left(\mathcal{A}'\right)\right)=T^{-1}\left(\sigma\left(\mathcal{A}'\right)\right)\tag1$$where $T^{-1}(\mathcal V):=\{T^{-1}(V)\mid V\in\mathcal V\}$ for any $\mathcal V\subseteq\wp(\Omega')$.
For a guide how to prove that see here.
Proving tat $T$ is $\mathcal{F}/\mathcal{F}'$- measurable is the same as proving that: $T^{-1}\left(\mathcal{F}'\right)\subseteq\mathcal{F}$ or
equivalently: $$T^{-1}\left(\sigma\left(\mathcal{A}'\right)\right)\subseteq\mathcal{F}$$
But $\left(1\right)$ tells us that this is the same condition as:
$$\sigma\left(T^{-1}\left(\mathcal{A}'\right)\right)\subseteq\mathcal{F}$$
wich on its turn is equivalent with the condition:$$T^{-1}\left(\mathcal{A}'\right)\subseteq\mathcal{F}$$
I strongly advice you to put $(1)$ in your "math backpack".