For questions like this, you probably want to get a copy of the book Counterexamples in Topology, by Steen and Seebach. The "general reference chart" in the back of that book allows you to search the counterexamples by combinations of properties they do and don't satisfy.
Fortunately, this chart (and more) now exists in an online searchable form: $\pi$-Base.
Can a topological space be Hausdorff and separable, but neither
Lindelof nor first countable?
Yes: The strong ultrafilter topology.
Can a topological space be Hausdorff and Lindelof, but neither
separable nor first countable?
Yes: Many examples, including the ordinal space $[0,\omega_1]$ and the countable complement extension topology (the topology generated by the standard topology on $\mathbb{R}$ together with the countable complement topology on $\mathbb{R}$).
Can a topological space be Hausdorff, but not separable, Lindelof, or
first countable?
Yes: Many examples, including the product topology on a product of uncountably many copies of an infinite discrete set.
Are all second countable spaces Hausdorff?
No. Many examples, including the cofinite topology on $\mathbb{N}$.