You have:
60 = 5(11)+5
11 = 2(5)+1
Use that to solve $11a + 60b = 1$.
Start with $1= 11 -2*5$.
Replace the $5$ from the line above $5 = 60-5*11$
So $1 = 11 - 2*5=$
$11 -2 (60-5*11) =$
$11 - 2*60 + 10*11 =$
$11*11 - 2*60$.
So $1 = 11*11 -2*60$.
And that's it!
To solve $11a + 60b =1$ we have $a=11$ and $b=-2$ are solutions.
So that means $11a = 1+2*60 \equiv 1 \pmod{60}$.
If have $11*a \equiv 1 \pmod {60}$ we have figured $11*11$ so if $a=11\pmod{60}$ that is a solution.
... Okay, I haven't explained how we knew that $11a\equiv 1\pmod{60}$ had any solutions at all in the first place, nor how we knew that it had only one solution[1].... but.... you didn't ask about that.
[1] Only one solution modulo $60$, that is. $11$ is a solution but so are $11 + 60k$. But all $11 + 60k\equiv 11\pmod {60}$ and are considered, for all intents and purposes, to be the same single thing.