We desire the things stated in the title for:
$\sum_{k=2}^m \sum_{n=1}^{k-1} {q^n\over {1-q^n}}$
Some things I've looked into that may be of some help:
The first sum is just a truncated (partially summed) Lambert series, so take a look at the truncated Lambert series.
Answer #2 from this other question, which may be able to help using theta functions
More on the q-digamma function, check out Wolfram Alpha's entry too