Let $(M,g)$ be a $4$-dimensional smooth Riemannian manifold. I am trying to understand the following exterior algebra computation:
Let $x^1,x^2,x^3,x^4$ be local coordinates on $M$ such that the Riemannian volume form of $g$ is $\mathrm{d}x^1\wedge\mathrm{d}x^2\wedge\mathrm{d}x^3\wedge\mathrm{d}x^4$.
Then there exist a local frame $\alpha_1,\alpha_2,\alpha_3,\alpha_4$ of $1$-forms such that the following identities hold: $$ \begin{aligned} \ast_g(\mathrm{d}x^1\wedge\mathrm{d}x^2)&= \alpha_3\wedge\alpha_4\\ \ast_g(\mathrm{d}x^1\wedge\mathrm{d}x^3)&= \alpha_4\wedge\alpha_2\\ \ast_g(\mathrm{d}x^1\wedge\mathrm{d}x^4)&= \alpha_2\wedge\alpha_3\\ \end{aligned}\qquad \begin{aligned} \ast_g(\mathrm{d}x^3\wedge\mathrm{d}x^4)&= \alpha_1\wedge\alpha_2\\ \ast_g(\mathrm{d}x^4\wedge\mathrm{d}x^2)&= \alpha_1\wedge\alpha_3\\ \ast_g(\mathrm{d}x^2\wedge\mathrm{d}x^3)&= \alpha_1\wedge\alpha_4\\ \end{aligned} \tag1 $$ (The pattern is that the indices on both sides of every equation are complementary.)
In fact, the solution of these equations (which is unique up to replacing each $\alpha_i$ by $-\alpha_i$) is given by $$ \alpha_i = g_{ij}\,\mathrm{d}x^j\qquad\qquad\text{where}\quad g = g_{ij}\,\mathrm{d}x^i\mathrm{d}x^j. $$
Question: Why does the formula $\alpha_i = g_{ij}\,\mathrm{d}x^j$ solve the equations?
Here is what I understood:
$\mathrm{d}x^1,\mathrm{d}x^2$ are $g$-orthogonal to $\alpha_3,\alpha_4$. Since $\ast_g(\mathrm{d}x^1\wedge\mathrm{d}x^2)$ is decomposable*, we can write $$ \ast_g(\mathrm{d}x^1\wedge\mathrm{d}x^2)=\beta_1 \wedge \beta_2$$ for some one-forms $\beta_i$, which implies $\mathrm{d}x^1,\mathrm{d}x^2$ are $g$-orthogonal to $\beta_1,\beta_2$. Thus $\text{span}\{\beta_1,\beta_2\}=\text{span}\{\alpha_3,\alpha_4\}$, so $\beta_1 \wedge \beta_2=f\alpha_3 \wedge \alpha_4$ for some function $f$. We now need to prove that $f=1$, which is (up to a sign) equivalent to the statement $$ \| \ast_g(\mathrm{d}x^1\wedge\mathrm{d}x^2)\|=\|\alpha_3 \wedge \alpha_4\|. $$ Since the Hodge dual operator is an isometry, this is equivalent to $$ \| \mathrm{d}x^1\wedge\mathrm{d}x^2\|=\|\alpha_3 \wedge \alpha_4\|. $$ This is where the assumption $\det(g_{ij})=1$ is supposed to enter. I tried to expand both sides in terms of the $g_{ij}$, but so far I don't see how the result follows.
Perhaps there is another easier way to see this.
For the interested, this computation came up in a question about the existence of "higher-order" harmonic coordinates.
Comment: Of course, everything here is "pointwise", i.e. this is really a result about $4$-dim inner product spaces. I have kept the manifold notation since it might be more familiar.
*The Hodge star operator preserve decomposability of elements.