Let $l_1, l_2, l_3, l_4$ be four skew lines in a projective space $\mathbb{P}^3$ (meaning $l_i \cap l_j = \varnothing \;\forall i≠j$).
Let $R = \{ r : r \cap l_i ≠ \varnothing,\;i=1,...,4 \}$ be the set of all lines that intersect each one of the four skew lines.
Let $r, r' \in R$ and $p_i = r \cap l_i,\;p_i' = r' \cap l_i,\;i = 1,...,4$ be the points of intersection respectively.
Show that for the cross ratios it is true that:
a) $(p_1,p_2,p_3,p_4) = (p_1',p_2',p_3',p_4') \Rightarrow \#R = \infty$
b) $(p_1,p_2,p_3,p_4) ≠ (p_1',p_2',p_3',p_4') \Rightarrow R = \{r,r'\}$
Any help is very much appreciated!
To be honest i fail already at showing that $R$ is not the empty set and there are at least two lines intersecting all of the original four skew lines. Also i have the feeling that it might be necessary to understand why (geometrically) in the one case there are infinitely many lines and in the other just two - which i've tried but can not come up with the intuition.
Thanks already for your attention, time and effort!
Edit: We did not really cover ruled quadrics, so any solution without using these would be particullarly appreciated!