I have been reading Munkres' Topology and in Ch. 1 section 10, the Well-Ordering Theorem is introduced as equivalent to AC, there is even a proof of it outlined in the supplementary exercises. However, the main use of this theorem in the book seems to be to show that uncountable well-ordered sets exist. From a bit of research (and even in Munkres' book) you can show that there exist uncountable well-ordered sets without AC.
To my actual question, it is stated all over in various sources that the well-ordering of $\mathbb{R}$, or $\mathbb{R}$ being impossible to well-order is independent of ZF. I can't seem to find a proof or a link to a paper that shows that this is in fact the case. I don't know tons of set theory, just what is given in the first chapter of Munkres' book, so maybe I couldn't even understand the proof, but I would at least like to know it's out there and try to understand it. This is the closest thing I can find to talking about the subject but still doesn't mention the reason why the well-ordering of $\mathbb{R}$ is independent of ZF. Any help is much appreciated.