Let $G$ be the structure with underlying set $\mathbb Z^3$ and product defined by:
$$(k_1,l_1,m_1)(k_2,l_2,m_2) = (k_1 + k_2 + l_1m_2, l_1+l_2,m_1+m_2)$$
It's easy to prove that $G$ is a group with neutral element $(0,0,0)$. I would like to prove that this group has the presentation:
$$x_2x_1 = x_3 x_1x_2, x_3x_1 = x_1 x_3, x_3x_2=x_2x_3$$
in the free group generated by $x_1,x_2,x_3$.
What I did was the following.
Let $e_3 = (1,0,0)$, $e_2 = (0,1,0)$ and $e_1 =(0,0,1)$ (the choice of these is because I'd like them to "match" the $x_i$'s).
We have by easy verification that:
$$e_2e_1 = e_3e_1e_2, e_3e_1=e_1e_3, e_3e_2=e_2e_3 \tag1$$
Let $K$ be the normal subgroup of $FG^3$ generated by the elements:
$$x_2x_1x_2^{-1}x_1^{-1}x_3^{-1}, x_3x_1x_3^{-1}x_1^{-1}, x_3x_2x_3^{-1}x_2^{-1}$$
Let $f: FG^3 \to G$ be the homomorphism sending $x_i$ to $e_i$. It is surjective since the $e_i$ generate $G$; for we have:
$$(k,l,m) = (k,0,0)(0,l,m) = (k,0,0)(0,0,m)(0,l,0)=e_3^k e_1^me_2^l$$
Now $K \subset \ker f$, by $(1)$. I would like to prove that $\ker f \subset K$ to conclude.
How to do this?
I know that the question has been asked before here, but I don't understand the answer there.