This is the problem of finding the expectation of a random $r$-element
subset $A$ of $\{1,2,\ldots,n\}$ (chosen uniformly). Let the elements
of $A$ be the discrete random variables $X_1<X_2<\ldots<X_r$.
So our task is to find $E(X_1)$.
Introduce new random variables:
$Y_1=X_1$, $Y_2=X_2-X_1$, $Y_3=X_3-X_2,\ldots, Y_r=X_r-X_{r-1}$, $Y_{r+1}
=n+1-X_r$.
These take positive integer values and $Y_1+\cdots+Y_{r+1}=n+1$.
Each sequence of integers which fulfils these conditions corresponds to
a unique set $A$. Therefore each such sequence occurs with the
same probability. These conditions are symmetric in $1,\ldots,r+1$
so the $Y_i$ all have the same distribution. In particular
$E(Y_1)=E(Y_2)=\cdots=E(Y_{r+1})$. So
$$(r+1)E(Y_1)=E(Y_1+Y_2+\cdots+Y_{r+1})=E(n+1)=n+1.$$
Therefore
$$E(X_1)=E(Y_1)=\frac{n+1}{r+1}.$$
As a bonus, the expectation of the $k$-th smallest element of $A$ is
$$E(X_k)=E(Y_1+\cdots+Y_k)=E(Y_1)+\cdots+E(Y_k)
=kE(Y_1)=k\frac{n+1}{r+1}.$$