For Lie algebra $S=\{e_{1}, e_{2}, e_{3}, e_{4}\}$ with non-zero commutations:
$[e_{1}, e_{3}]=e_{1}, [e_{2}, e_{3}]=\alpha\, e_{2}$
we have $S=e_{4}\oplus L_{3}$, such that $L_{3}=\{e_{1}, e_{2}, e_{3}\}$.
My queries is; What are splitting and non-splitting extensions of $e_{4}$? As far I know for splitting extensions of $e_{4}$ I need to find sub-algebras $N$ of $L_{3}$ such that
$[e_{4}, N]\subseteq N$
Am I correct on that? How I am suppose to find these sub-algebras $N$ ? For non-splitting extensions of $e_{4}$, I guess one need to find algebras
$\{e_{4}+\sum_{i}^{3}a_{i}\,e_{i}, N\}$
here again $N$ is sub-algebras of $L_{3}$ such that $\text{Nor}_{S}N$ is not contained in $L_{3}$ (how is that possible !! and why we need so ?) and $e_{4}+\sum_{i}^{3}a_{i}$ is not conjugate to $e_{4}$.
Am I correct on this definition of non-splitting extension of $e_{4}$ ? If yes, how I can find $a_{i}'s$ and sub-algebras $N$ ?
PS. My this query is pertaining to systematic procedure of classifying Lie algebra given in Patera and Winternitz.