Possibly the way that involves the least working with specific matrices and the most group theory:
Lemma1: The $p$-Sylow in $SL_n(\mathbb{F}_q)$ is not normal when $q$ is a power of $p$.
Proof: It is straightforward to check that either the set of upper- or lower triangular matrices with $1$'s on the diagonal is a $p$-Sylow, and since these are distinct, a $p$-Sylow is not normal.
Lemma2: If $|G| = 2^rm$ with $m$ odd and the $2$-Sylow is cyclic, then $G$ has a normal subgroup of order $m$.
Proof: Consider the action of $G$ on itself by left translation as a map to $S_{|G|}$ and not that a generator for a $2$-Sylow corresponds to $m$ disjoint $2^r$-cycles and is hence an odd permutations. This means that the image of $G$ is not contained in $A_{|G|}$ and thus the preimage of $A_{|G|}$ is a subgroup of $G$ of index $2$. Now the claim follows by induction on $r$ (since a normal subgroup of order $m$ is a Hall subgroup and thus characteristic).
Finally, we see that there is no element of order $8$ in $SL_2(\mathbb{F}_3)$ since this would mean it had a cyclic $2$-Sylow and by Lemma2 thus a normal subgroup of order $3$, i.e. a normal $3$-Sylow, which contradicts Lemma1.