The tangent cone is largely a theoretical construct used to prove other stuff, like coming up with constraint qualifications for KKT conditions if you've heard of those. It's not easy to construct in general. Consider the set $-x \leq 0, -y \leq 0, y \leq x^3, y \geq x^5$ and the cone of feasible directions at the origin. It is empty. The tangent cone, however, is the x-axis. Try graphing it and you might understand why.
Loosely speaking, the tangent direction at the origin is the x-axis, but the feasible region near the origin is "too thin" to allow for a feasible direction. There is no $\epsilon \in \mathbb{R}$ small enough to accomodate a step in ANY direction that will give you feasibility. But there is still a direction that is "pointing towards feasibility" - the tangent direction.
Edit: Regarding the visual, it would graph exactly like the cone of feasible directions. The difference is infinitesimal, litterally :) It's just that theoretically ever-so-important boundary that differs.