This is a follow-up to this question.
For matrix Lie algebras, we can define the Lie algebra $g$ of a group $G$ as the set $T_a \in g$ that yield an element of $G$ when put into the exponential map:
$$ e^{\sum_a \alpha_a T_a} \in G $$
for some numbers $\alpha_a$
For the $SO(n)$ groups, the defining condition $O^T O=1$ means for the generators $T_a^T = -T_a$.
Now I learned in the answers to the question I linked to above that we can choose a basis for the Lie algebra, where the generators aren't antisymmetric. Why and how is this possible? If we are able to do some change of basis such that $ \tilde T_a^T \neq - \tilde T_a$ thus
$$ (e^{\sum_a \alpha_a \tilde T_a})^T e^{\sum_a \alpha_a \tilde T_a} \neq 1 $$
and therefore we do not get elements of $SO(n)$ when put into the exponential map.
EDIT: Although the comment and answer help me get closer to a satisfying understanding, I think I need a concrete example.
Therefore let's consider the Lie algebra of $SO(3)$, which consists of antisymmetric 3x3 matrices, which must have the form
$$H = \begin{pmatrix}0 & -\omega_3 & \omega_2 \\ \omega_3 & 0 & -\omega_1 \\ -\omega_2 & \omega_1 & 0\end{pmatrix} .$$
How and why can we rewrite these basis elements such that they are no longer skew-symmetric?