As you noted, in the definition of a category, objects do not have elements. However, in a category there can be arrows that act like the elements of a set would do.
In a category $\mathbf{C}$, a terminal object, call it $1$, is defined as follows.
For any object $A$ of $\mathbf{C}$ there exists a unique arrow $!:A \rightarrow 1$. Terminal objects are unique up to isomorphism. In a category with a terminal object $1$, any given object $A$ then, there is a unique arrow to $1$, but there may be several arrows $a:1 \rightarrow A$ to the object. These are called global elements or points of $A$.
In a category with terminal object $1$, given an arrow $\eta: A \rightarrow B$, and an global element $ a: 1 \rightarrow A$, there exists an arrow $ \eta \circ a : 1 \rightarrow B$ which is indeed a global element of B. This is as close as you get to answering "yes" at both your questions for a general category.
To see why this is interesting, lets look at $\mathbf{Sets}$, the category of sets and functions. There, the terminal object is any set containing only one element, like $1 \equiv \{1\}$. For each set $X$ there is only one function to it, ie $ \forall x \in X : x \mapsto 1$ so this is a terminal object. The generalised elements of $X$ then are the functions (arrows) from $\{1\} \rightarrow X$, and it is easy to see that the set of such arrows is isomorphic to the set of elements of $X$, In other words, for each element $x\in X$ there is an arrow $\{1\} \rightarrow X$, the function $1\mapsto x$. And for each arrow there is an element.
Thus in $\mathbf{Sets}$, the generalised elements of $X$ reduce to the elements of $X$.
Long story short, the axioms of category do not contain the notion of elements of objects, but it is possible to define the notion of global elements in any category with a terminal object. In the case of $\mathbf{Sets}$, the global elements are in bijective correspondence with the elements.