Let me first begin what I mean by saying the intuition behind the " $\delta'(x)$ ". For example the smooth approximations of the delta function looks like the following:

(Left:the smooth approximation of $\delta(x)$ Right:the smooth approximation of $\delta'(x)$)
And by using my intuition I can understand why $$ \int_{-\infty}^{\infty}f( \bar{x} )\delta(x-\bar{x}) \mathrm{d}\bar{x}=f(x) $$ because I can say that the delta function fires whenever $x=\bar{x}$ and picks up the value of $f(x)$ at that point and when I integrate over all values of x, I get my function f(x) back. In other words it is like building the function $f(x)$ from thin sticks, which has the same hight as the value of the function. (Although I know that this explanation is nowhere near mathematical, it helps me and others to understand -whatever that means- the concept easier.) When I learned about the derivative of the delta function and its following property I was utterly shocked: $$ \int_{-\infty}^{\infty}f(\bar{x})\delta'(x-\bar{x}) \mathrm{d}\bar{x}=f'(x) $$
Because no matter how long I think about the subject I was unable to build a correct intuition about this distribution. My question is this: Can you explain me intuitively why the derivative of the delta function gives arise to a derivative?
PS: I know why this is true mathematically (integrating by parts and so on).