I was always taught do not say "$dy$ divided by $dx$", instead "$dy$ by $dx$" because it's not really dividing.
I then studied differentiation from first principles, where one takes two points on a curve: eg. $(x, y)$ and $(x+\delta x, y+\delta y)$
$$\therefore \text{ gradient} = \frac{(y+\delta y)- y}{(x+\delta x) - x}$$
I'll skip the continuation but one gets the derivative of the equation through some algebra. If you simply expand the brackets instantly you simplify it to $\frac{\delta y}{\delta x}$ which is a division.
Firstly, why is the sign different - is it just because it is easier to right $d$ than $\delta$?
Secondly, why can one not say $dy$ divided by $dx$?
Thanks