$\newcommand{\mf}{\mathfrak}\newcommand{\Gal}{\operatorname{Gal}}\newcommand{\Ker}{\operatorname{Ker}}$
First, let $\mf M$ denote the maximal ideal of $L$, let $\pi_L$ be a uniformizer at $L$, and let $\pi_K=\pi_L^e$. Also, let $v_L$ denote the valuation on $L$, let $U_L^0=U_L=\{x\in L:v_L(x)=0\}$, let $U_L^k=1+\mf M^k$ for $k>0$, let $\ell$ denote $L$'s residue field, and make all the analagous defintions with $K$ in place of $L$. We'll need a couple lemmas that I won't bother proving.
Lemma. $U^0_L/U_L^1\simeq\ell^\times$ and $U_L^i/U_L^{i+1}\simeq\ell$ for $i>0$.
Lemma. There is an injection $\theta_i:G_i/G_{i+1}\to U_L^i/U_L^{i+1}$ induced by the map $s\in G_i\mapsto s(\pi_L)/\pi_L$.
Now we can show the equivalences.
Propostion. The second bullet implies the first.
We have that $G_0\simeq G_0/G_1$ is (isomorphic to) a finite subgroup of $U_L^0/U_L^1\simeq\ell^\times$. $\ell^\times$ contains no nontrivial $p$-torsion since $x^p-1=(x-1)^p$. Hence, $G_0$ also contains no nontrivial $p$-torsion, so $p\nmid|G_0|=e$. $\square$
Propostion. The first bullet implies the second.
We claim that $G_1$ is a $p$-group, from which the claim follows since $|G_1|\mid|G_0|$. Note that $G_i/G_{i+1}$ is (isomorphic to) a finite subgroup of $\ell$, which is a finite-dimensional vector space over $\mathbb F_p$. Hence, $G_i/G_{i+1}$ has order a $p$-power, and so
$$|G_1|=\prod_{i=1}^\infty\frac{|G_i|}{|G_{i+1}|}$$
is a $p$-power as well. $\square$
Propostion. The first bullet implies the thrid.
Pick any $\alpha\in U_K^1$. Since $\alpha$ is a unit, it maps to the identity under the composition
$$K^\times\xrightarrow{\phi_{L/K}}\Gal(L/K)\to\Gal(\ell/k),$$
so $\phi_{L/K}(\alpha)\in G_0$, the inertia group. Now, let $\mf f$ be the conductor of $L/K$. Then, $\alpha^{p^{\mf f}}\in U_K^{\mf f}$, so $\phi_{L/K}(\alpha)^{p^{\mf f}}=1$, meaning that the $\phi_{L/K}(\alpha)$ has order a $p$-power. At the same time, $|G_0|=e$ is coprime to $p$, so $\phi_{L/K}(\alpha)=1$. $\square$
For the last implication, there's the following fact (that I'm not sure how to prove) which should probably come in handy.
Lemma. The image of $U_K^n$ under the local Artin map is $G^n$.
I don't like thinking about the upper filtration, so I'll leave figuring out how to make use of this to someone else.