What is the intuition behind short exact sequences of groups; in particular, what is the intuition behind group extensions?
I'm sorry that the definitions below are a bit haphazard but they're how I learnt about them, chronologically.
In Johnson's "Presentation$\color{red}{s}$ of Groups," page 100, there is the following . . .
Definition 1: A diagram in a category $\mathfrak{C}$, which consists of objects $\{A_n\mid n\in\Bbb Z\}$ and morphisms $$\partial_n: A_n\to A_{n+1}, n\in \Bbb Z,\tag{6}$$ is called a sequence in $\mathfrak{C}$. Such a sequence is called exact if $$\operatorname{Im}\partial_n=\ker \partial_{n+1},\,\text{ for all }n\in \Bbb Z$$ [. . .] A short exact sequence in the category $\mathfrak{C}_{\Bbb R}$ of right $\Bbb R$-modules is an exact sequence of the form $(6)$ with all but three consecutive terms equal to zero. [. . .]
Also, ibid., page 101, is this:
It is fairly obvious that a sequence
$$0\longrightarrow A\stackrel{\theta}{\longrightarrow}B\stackrel{\phi}{\longrightarrow}C\longrightarrow 0$$
is a short exact sequence if and only if the following conditions hold:
$\theta$ is one-to-one,
$\phi$ is onto,
$\theta\phi=0$,
$\ker \phi\le\operatorname{Im}\theta$.
I'm reading Baumslag's "Topics in Combinatorial Group Theory". Section III.2 on semidirect products starts with
Let $$1\longrightarrow A\stackrel{\alpha}{\longrightarrow}E\stackrel{\beta}{\longrightarrow}Q\longrightarrow 1$$ be a short exact sequence of groups. We term $E$ an extension of $A$ by $Q$.
Thoughts:
I'm aware that semidirect products can be seen as short exact sequences but this is not something I understand yet. My view of semidirect products is as if they are defined by a particular presentation and my go-to examples are the dihedral groups.
Please help :)