$1.$ By a theorem of Euler, any even perfect number is of the shape $2^{p-1}(2^p-1)$ where $p$ is prime. We don't need the primality part. Multiply by $8$, add $1$. We get $2^{2p+2}-2(2^{p+1})+1$, which is the square of $2^{p+1}-1$.
$2.$ We show that an odd perfect number cannot have only $2$ distinct prime factors (we don't deal with only $1$ prime factor, it's easier).
Let $N=p^aq^b$ where $p$ and $q$ are odd primes and $p\lt q$. Then the sum of the divisors of $N$ is
$$(1+p+\cdots+p^a)(1+q+\cdots+q^b).$$
Using the ordinary formula for the sum of a finite geometric series, this can be rewritten as
$$\frac{p^{a+1}-1}{p-1}\cdot \frac{q^{b+1}-1}{q-1}.$$
Divide by $N$. The result is
$$\frac{p-\frac{1}{p^a}} {p-1}\cdot \frac{q-\frac{1}{q^b}} {q-1} .$$
This is less than
$$\frac{p}{p-1}\cdot \frac{q}{q-1}.\tag{$1$}$$
We show that the product $(1)$ must be less than $2$. In particular, that shows the product cannot be $2$, so $N$ is in fact deficient.
It is easier to show that the reciprocal of Expression $(1)$ is greater than $\frac{1}{2}$. This reciprocal is
$$\left(1-\frac{1}{p}\right)\cdot \left(1-\frac{1}{q}\right).$$
But $p\ge 3$ and $q\ge 5$. So $1-\frac{1}{3}\ge \frac{2}{3}$ and $1-\frac{1}{q}\ge \frac{4}{5}$. So their product is $\ge \frac{8}{15}$, which is greater than $\frac{1}{2}$.
I have not thought about your Question $3$.