Let $A$ be the stochastic transition matrix of an ergodic Markov chain of size $n$ (number of states of the chain). Let $\pi$ be the row vector such that $\pi A = \pi$ (a.k.a. left eigenvector associated with eigenvalue $1$, a.k.a stationary distribution), and let $D$ the diagonal matrix such that $D_{ii} = \sqrt{\pi_i}$. Suppose also that the chain is such that $D^2A = A^TD^2$ is verified (it is reversible). Then we know that $B = DAD^{-1}$ is real symmetric, so that $B$ is diagonalizable with real eigenvalues, and $A$ and $B$ share these eigenvalues by matrix similarity. We then have that $\|L\|_2 = \|U \Lambda U^T\|_2 = \|\Lambda\|_2$ where $\Lambda$ is the diagonal matrix of the eigenvalues, and $U$ is the orthogonal matrix of the right eigenvectors so that $\|L\|_2 = \max_{i \in[n]} |\lambda_i| = 1$ (largest eigenvalue in magnitude of a stochastic matrix).
Now I claim the following conjecture that $\|B\|_2 = 1$ even when $D^2A = A^TD^2$ is not verified (it is not reversible), but in that case I fail to prove it, and I would appreciate some pointers to understand why it is still the case. The reason I believe it is true is from numerical simulation.