I'm a phisicist, who started looking just a little bit into distribution theory, so I can claim to know what I'm doing when throwing about dirac-deltas. Hence I only know two test function spaces: $\mathcal{D}=C^{\infty}_c(\Omega)$ (smooth functions with compact support) and $\mathcal{S} (\Omega)$ (Schwartz-space) where $\Omega\subseteq\mathbb{R}^n$ open. Now I wonder what the motivation is for defining the topologies on these spaces as one does it.
I'm reading "Fundamental Solutions of Partial Differential Operators" by Ortner and Wagner. They avoid actually defining the topologies on these spaces and only talk about convergence of sequences. I'm actually not sure what the exact relationship is between the sequence convergence and the topologies. For Schwarz space the question is irrelevant, since it its topology is metric. However $\mathcal{D}$ is not sequential.
Question 1: Is there a way to characterize the topology of $\mathcal{D}$ with sequences, as in saying "the coarsest topology having that convergence properties for sequences" or something similar? What is the reason most people don't bother talking about the actual topology and seems satisfied with sequences, although the topology is not sequential? I've heared something about that being irrelevant for linear maps, but haven't seen a precise statement.
As far as I know the definitions of sequence convergence are "Uniform convergence of all derivatives on compact sets with supports contained in a compact set" for $\mathcal{D}$ and "uniform convergence of all derivatives" for $\mathcal{S}$ respectively. The rest of my question deals with motivating these definitions.
For Schwarz space "to some extent" the motivation, as far as I know, is that almost everything one needs is continuous on this space and maps back into it. In particular all differential operators, and most particularly the Fourier transform. I'm fairly happy with this definition, although there is surely more to understand there. In particular I would like to know
(Soft) Question 2: Is there a way to characterize Schwarz space as "The subspace $X$ of $C^{\infty}(\Omega)$ where ??? can be defined $?:X\to X$" and the topology (or sequential convergence) is motivated in some way by requiring all the ??? stuff to be continuous? In terms of the ??? stuff I'm thinking of usefull things like derivatives and fourier transforms, not artificial examples making it work out right. [I found a claim that one gets this starting from $L^1(\Omega)$ by taking differentiation and multiplication by polynomials as some kind of closure. Needs clarification and proof though]
Let's turn to $\mathcal{D}$: I'm aware of Why does a convergent sequence of test functions have to be supported in a single compact set?, where the motivation of the convergence criteria of $\mathcal{D}$ is discussed to some extent. In particular it seems to me, that the notion of distribution depends on the topology on $\mathcal{D}$. Hence an answer saying something like "that part doesn't matter for compactly supported distributions" makes no sense to me. I don't really understand the answers and would like more detail. Can something similar to question 2 be answered for $\mathcal{D}$?
(Soft) Question 3: What is the motivation behind the topology for $\mathcal{D}$? Why all that talk about compact sets? Certainly I would be also happy with a motivation for what the topological dual (distribution space) should look like and then looking for what spaces have that as their dual.
In particular, the quoted question confused me on the following: The space $\mathcal{D}$ being locally convex, the topology is given by a family of semi-norms. That would mean we need to reabsorb the criterion "all supports of functions in the sequence (when testing for convergence) lie inside some compact set" into just a set of seminorms. Can this be done? I haven't seen that.