Let $a,b$ be elements of a regular semigroup $S$. Then $(a,b) \in \mathcal L$ iff there exist an inverse $a'$ of $a$ and $b'$ of $b$ such that $a' a = b'b$.
I have done the converse parts: if there exist an inverse $a'$ of $a$ and $b'$ of $b$ such that $a' a = b'b$ , then $(a,b) \in \mathcal L$.
Suppose $(a,b) \in \mathcal L$, so $a,b$ belongs the same $\mathcal D-$ class says $D$ and $a,b$ are regular, so every $\mathcal R$ class in $D$ contains an idempotent , it follows that $\mathcal R_b$ contains an idempotent says $e$. how to proceed further .
Any help would be appreciated, Thank you