If $$A = \{1,2,3,4\} $$ and $$R = \{(3,3), (4,4), (1,4)\}$$
This example is antisymmetric but not symmetric.
However, the definition of Antisymmetric taken from Merriam-Webster is this:
relating to or being a relation (as “is a subset of”) that implies equality of any two quantities for which it holds in both directions (the relation R is antisymmetric if aRb and bRa implies a = b)
Please forgive my ignorance, but I'm incredibly confused by the definition. I'm obviously wrong, but it suggests to me that there is/should be a (4,1) in R. However, if there was a (4,1) in R that would make R symmetric and not antisymmetric.
I found a previous Question that asked something similar but was answered with the use of Digraphs. It made me understand how to identify antisymmetric relations, but I still don't understand the core concept.
Thank you so much for any help!